F*CK THE NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTIONS

F*CK THE NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTIONS

The Last Resolution You’ll Ever Need: Stop Chasing Goals, Start Chasing Peace

Alright, let’s get real for a second. How many times have you psyched yourself up for this to be your year? You tell yourself, “This is it. This is the year I finally [insert whatever goal you’ve been chasing forever here].” 

Maybe it’s more money. Maybe it’s a “better” body. Maybe it’s something else shiny and alluring that’s supposed to fix everything.

But let me hit you with some hard truth (delivered with love, of course): That’s not really what you want.

What you actually want—the thing all those goals are really about—is to FEEL GOOD.

You want to wake up in the morning and feel at peace. You want to stop being dragged around by the chaos of life, constantly chasing the next thing to “fix” yourself. You want to feel calm, content, and grounded no matter what’s happening around you.

Here’s the kicker: Even if you did hit that goal, you could still feel like crap. Because goals don’t create peace. You could finally land the dream job, get the six-pack, or hit the magic number in your bank account and still feel like something’s missing.

WHY? Because it’s not about what you have or achieve. It’s about WHO you become.

The Secret Isn’t Another Goal—It’s a New Way of Living

So, here’s my suggestion: Let’s ditch the never-ending list of resolutions. No more “new year, new you” hype that falls flat by February. 

Instead, let’s focus on something that will actually change your life:

Become the person who knows how to feel good and stay grounded, no matter what’s going on.

Think about it: When you’re content and centered, life starts to look a whole lot better—without you having to hustle so hard for it. 

You’re not chasing peace; you’re living it. And everything else? It starts falling into place.

So, How Do You Actually Do That?

Here’s the part where we keep it simple (because life’s already complicated enough).

You don’t need a million-dollar plan or an elaborate vision board. What you need is a framework—a way to build habits and mindsets that make feeling good your default setting.

In Just 6 Weeks, You Can:

  • Learn to manage stress like a pro (even when life gets messy).
  • Build a routine that supports your mental and emotional health.
  • Develop unshakable optimism and self-confidence.
  • Cultivate a sense of contentment and joy that’s independent of external circumstances.

When you work from the inside out, something magical happens: You feel good first. And when you feel good, life starts looking just as good.

Your energy shifts, your perspective changes, and suddenly, those big goals either feel easier to achieve—or not as necessary as you thought.

Why This Matters (More Than Any Other Goal)

Life will throw curveballs. That’s guaranteed. But if you know how to stay grounded, calm, and happy even when things go sideways?

You’re UNSTOPPABLE. You don’t need the perfect job, the perfect body, or the perfect relationship to feel whole. You already have everything you need—you just have to learn how to access it.

So, this year, let’s make a resolution that actually STICKS. Not one about achieving or proving, but one about becoming.

This is your year to stop chasing and start living. Let’s do this.

This is the work we will do together  in my upcoming FEEL GOOD ON DEMAND Program launching this January!  🎉  - to train this skill so that you can be the CEO of your happiness no matter what happens out there. 

This program is all about embracing that feel good life and stepping into the best version of you for 2025 ✨

💡 And of course, I’m all for giving you OPTIONS, So…choose your vibe, you can either do:

  • Group sessions for community support 👯‍♀️
  • Private coaching for one-on-one guidance 💬

💌 Contact me for more info and let’s get that glow-up started. Your best year yet is waiting! 🚀

Contact me here: https://thezenmonk.com/pages/bookingnow

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