"I Prayed for This" — But Not in the Way You Think
The other day, I sat on my balcony with a glimpse of the sea on the horizon — messy bun, oversized tee, my chai kinda cold — and it just hit me: I prayed for this.
Not in a big, dramatic, fireworks kind of way. Not because everything was perfect or finally tied up with a bow. But in that quiet, sacred moment of awareness. Like, Whoa… I’m living something I used to wish for.
And if you’ve ever had a moment like that, you know how it feels. Your heart softens. Time slows. Gratitude creeps in like warm sunlight. And for a second, you can breathe deeper.
But let’s be real. I know some of you are reading this and thinking, “Must be nice.”
Because your reality doesn’t feel like an answered prayer right now. It feels like you’re stuck in a loop — looking around and only seeing what’s missing, what still hurts, what hasn’t changed. And when you’re in that space, someone saying “you created this” doesn’t feel inspiring. It feels insulting.
But hear me out, love. This isn’t about blame. This is about power.✨
Let me tell you a little story.
Years ago, I remember crying on my bathroom floor, just feeling so… defeated. Life didn’t look the way I wanted it to. I felt like I was always waiting — for the right opportunity, or the right moment to finally feel okay. And I couldn’t understand why I kept ending up in the same patterns.
Looking back, I can see it so clearly now: I wasn’t broken. I was just stuck in a story I kept telling myself.
A story that said I wasn’t enough. That things would never change. That my dreams were just too far away.
And I didn’t realize then that my thoughts were building my reality. Every belief I held, every decision I made, every way I reacted — it all added up to this life I was quietly, unknowingly shaping.
Even the things I didn’t choose? My response to them still shaped what came next.
That’s why this realization — “I prayed for this” — feels so layered. Because yeah, I prayed. But I also participated. I made decisions. I shifted my mindset. I chose to do the deeper work. And most importantly, I started thinking differently.
Because that’s where it all begins: YOUR THOUGHTS.
✔️How you think affects how you feel.
✔️How you feel drives what you do.
✔️And what you do? That’s what builds your life.
So if you’re in the thick of it right now — if life feels like a mess, if you’re tired of repeating the same painful cycles — I want to tell you something:
You can create something BETTER.
But you’ve got to start at the root. You’ve got to stop rehearsing the old story and start rewriting it. Thought by thought. Choice by choice. Day by day.
That’s exactly what my THINK BETTER Program is about. It’s not just about “being positive” or setting goals. It’s about helping you see your own life differently — so you stop repeating the same patterns, and finally break free from the loop.
It’s about helping you reconnect to your power. So you can build a life that, one day, even in the middle of the mess, you’ll look around and smile and say:
“I prayed for this — and I made it happen.”
So if your heart’s been whispering that you’re meant for more… maybe this is your sign.
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Because you were never meant to carry this alone. You just haven’t seen the full picture yet. But I promise you, it’s going to be beautiful.