These Are the Fcking Best Days (Yes, These)
You know that one line that always hits when you hear it in a movie, or when your parents bring it up over coffee?
“Those were the days…”
Cue the nostalgic music, sepia-toned flashbacks, and a deep sigh like life back then was pure magic. Simpler. Slower. Better.
And hey, I get it. I’ve said it too.
Back then, we had fewer notifications pinging our peace.
No endless scroll. No pressure to have a personal brand before breakfast.
Just backyard games, handwritten notes, and Saturday morning cartoons.
But let’s be real for a second — was it actually better?
Or have we just edited out the hard parts like a reel montage with a dreamy filter?
Let me take you back…
📽️Picture This:
You're a mom in 1998.
Need groceries? You have to get in the car, drag the kids with you, or beg someone to watch them.
Need medicine? Drive again.
Miss your parents? You’d write a letter or wait till Sunday evening to call — and hope the long-distance fees didn’t bankrupt you.
Want to start a business? That required capital, connections and formal education.
NOW? One tap and the groceries appear at your door.
Another tap, and you’re video-calling your mom in another city or continent.
Your child’s math homework is giving you a headache? YouTube’s got you.
Need creative assistance? AI’s got you.
Feeling emotionally off? You can get matched with a therapist online in minutes.
Literally everything is more accessible.
You have resources in your pocket that your parents couldn’t have even dreamed of.
So... Why Are We Still Complaining?
Yes, I know.
There’s a lot about today’s world that feels heavy. We’re drowning in information. Comparison is one scroll away. Everyone looks like they’ve got it together while we’re just trying not to burn the rice and our mental health.
But every era has its beauty and its burdens.
What’s different now is how much more equipped we are — if we know how to use it.
The problem is: no one taught us how to THINK in a world like this.
So what do we do instead?
We either romanticize the past: “It used to be so much better…”
Or postpone happiness to the future: “Maybe once I have more time… more money… more clarity…”
But what about now?
THESE Are the Fcking Days
The life you’re living right now — yes, the one with the leaking faucet in your beautiful home, the unanswered emails in your new tablet, the emotional rollercoasters from having something to stress about, the “I’m trying my best” kind of days (isn't that every day?)
This was once your dream. Maybe even your prayer. But we miss it.
Because we’re too busy looking at what's missing, what's gone or what's not enough. We look back with regret or ahead with anxiety.
And I get it — it’s hard to feel grateful when you’re in survival mode. When the mental load is heavy. When your heart feels fragile. When the future feels like one big question mark.
But let me offer you a little loving reminder (big sister style):
If you’re still operating from old stories, using outdated ways in a new, ever changing world of course life feels like a glitchy app.
Enter: Think Better
“What if the challenge you’re in right now is NOT the problem…
but the perspective you're using to face it?”
This isn’t some “just be positive” pep talk. This is about power.
It’s about the way your thoughts shape your reality — your peace, your joy, your clarity, your confidence.
That’s what Think Better Program exists for. To help you zoom out. To remind you: your mind is a tool, not your enemy. And you don’t have to wait until everything is perfect to feel free, calm, and empowered.
You just need the right lens.
So Here’s What I’ll Leave You With:
📎Stop waiting for “someday.”
📎Stop clinging to the past like it was flawless.
📎Stop scrolling through everyone else’s life and forgetting to live yours.
Because these are the f*cking best days — if you choose to see them that way.
Messy. Raw. Beautiful. Real.
And one day, not too far from now, you’ll look back at this season and whisper to yourself: “That was the moment I changed everything.”
It was the moment you got tired of letting your circumstances win over your joy, peace and purpose.
So you took a deep breath and chose to Think Better —
Not just to feel good, but to finally take back control of your mind, your mood, your life.
If this is what you are looking for, then your suppose has been right HERE all along.
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