THINGS THAT SHOULD BE "COOL" BUT ARE RIDICULED👉

THINGS THAT SHOULD BE "COOL" BUT ARE RIDICULED👉

Choosing your morning over their midnight.
Staying in, saying no to the shots, and actually prioritizing an AM workout, clean food, and a clear head over a 3-day hangover, even if it makes you the "boring" friend.

 

Acting completely out of your age.
On the flip side? Going absolutely nuts, having the tequila, and dropping the "perfect adult" act. As long as it's mindful, taking life a little less seriously and actually experiencing the chaos is NECESSARY.

 

Tasteful B*tching.
Yes, we talk. But there's a thick line between tearing someone down just to feel better about your own sh*t, and talking about a situation to actually learn from it. Changing the conversation from people to purpose.

 

Unapologetic PDA.
Apparently, it makes people uncomfy. Oops. Sorry, but having someone who genuinely wants to hold you, hype you, and express love loudly (even if it gives others the "ick") is a massive privilege. Let them roll their eyes.

 

Actually working on your own BS.
Whether you love the "woo" or the science, getting into self-help or getting a Coach is the ultimate flex. Catching your toxic ways, taking accountability instead of blaming people, and bettering life by bettering yourself? That is courageous AF.

 

Basic gratitude and humility.
The era of acting like a VIP just because your bank account or title got an upgrade is dead. Snapping at waiters or giving off "you can't sit with us" energy doesn't make you powerful—it makes you petty.

You didn't get to where you are alone, and it could all be taken away at an instant.

 

Cheering for completely different timelines.


Normalize hyping up chapters that look nothing like yours:

  • A Sindhi marrying outside their caste? Yay for love.
  • Recently divorced? Congrats on your newfound freedom.
  • Starting a biz in your 40s? Let’s fcking go!
  • Married without kids? Your life is full and purposeful.
  • Housewife or Entrepreneur Mom? You are holding it down either way.

 

The rules of what's “IN” keep changing.

  • Working out used to be for meatheads; now if you don't, you’re "lazy."
  • Staying sober used to make you "boring"; now partying too much makes you a "mess."
  • Waking up early was for nerds; now sleeping in is "unproductive."
  • Eating clean meant you were "difficult"; now indulging makes you a "glutton."

 

That's why I believe in the 80/20 Rule 😉
80% clean, 20% rubbish.
80% disciplined, 20% f*ck it all.

Because there is no one "right" lifestyle.
And too much of ONE thing is never good.

Someone is always going to have a problem with how you choose to live.
But here's the real problem 👉

 

Are YOU actually aware of WHY you’re doing what you’re doing
or just what's convenient and automatic?

 

Because when you act without thinking, you end up:
🚨 Doomscrolling on the couch instead of doing a 15-minute workout, and feeling like sht after.
🚨 FOMO-ing into the latest trend (padel, botox, keto—you name it) just to feel included, even when it doesn't feel good to you.
🚨 Dragging yourself out to party again when all you want is a slow, lazy-ass morning without a hangover—but everybody is going, so how could you not?
🚨 Hanging with energy vampires who bond by mocking people's outfits, weight gain, or human mishaps.
🚨 Letting your sibling bully you because "blood is blood", and cutting them off makes you seem like a btch.
🚨 Getting salty over a missed invite from your bestie, because your insecurity thinks "connection" means you have to do everything together.


So…

  • Are you living your life…
    Or just following the herd so you don't look like the “uncool” one?
  • Are you doing what's best for you..
    Or choosing whatever is easier right now even if it eventually kills you?
  • Are you keeping your habits in check…
    Or letting your automatic, unhealthy ones control you?



All of this confusion?
Happens because you’re running on a story that says:
YOU ARE UNCOOL (OR UNLOVEABLE) if you upset the status quo.

But YOU DO YOU boo… for as long as it's kind, nourishing and keeps you sane, who tf cares?

 

So if you're ready to…

  • Define your own “cool", not what’s expected.
  • Start your own trend… being okay being different.
  • Walk at the rhythm of your own beat, doing whatever the f*ck is best for you and letting the right people vibe with you.'

 

Then you can't just “think” about it.
You have to challenge your stories keeping you small and scared, then back them up with actionable steps.

 

That is exactly what we do in Think Better.


In just FOUR powerful sittings, we uncover exactly how you’re getting in your own way — and gain personalized tools to execute a new reality, like:
🚨 Responding calmly when someone judges you, instead of overthinking what you should have said the whole drive home.
🚨 Self-motivate to actually turn off the TV and move your body consistently without waiting for mood or validation
🚨 Communicating without guilt but with kindness, like saying "Sorry, I gotta sit this one out", even when they call you a kartu mati (buzzkill).
🚨 Snapping out of a bad moment fast, instead of letting one crappy interaction ruin your entire day, steal your sleep, and make you take it out on your family.
🚨 Pausing before spiraling, regulating the trigger and staying chill even when things don't go your way.

 

If this hits home, you're ready to call the shots.


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